Supporting Survivors During the Holidays 

The holiday season is often described as a time of joy, connection, and family. But for many survivors subjected to intimate partner violence (IPV), navigating the family law system can also be a time of increased stress, isolation, and risk. 

The holidays often place heavy emphasis on family and togetherness. However, for survivors, this can mean: 

• Pressure to spend time with an abusive partner or their family: making it harder for survivors to maintain boundaries and stay safe. 

• Parenting time and separation challenges: may mean survivors are unable to spend the holidays with their children. 

• Increased risk of violence: often arising from expectations around family gatherings. 

• Limited access to formal supports: such as courts, counselling, and shelters, which may operate with reduced hours during the holidays. 

The Role of Friends and Family 

Friends and family can play a really important role in supporting survivors through these difficult times. Simple acts of presence and listening can make a meaningful difference. If you are a friend or family member of the survivor, we encourage you to view our toolkit, Supporting After Separation, to learn more about how you can support loved ones.  

The Supporting After Separation contains information and resources so that a friend or family member can:  

• Understand the impact that violence has on the family  

• Communicate with your family member or friend in a healthy and effective way  

• Assist your loved one with the family law process.  

During the 16 Days of Activism, Luke’s Place, in partnership with the Region of Durham, has been running a campaign aimed at raising awareness, educating, and providing resources to the community related to intimate partner violence. Check out our webinars: 

• What IPV looks like 

• Intimate Partner Violence and Family Court   

• Being an Ally: Community Resources for Supporting Survivors  

Support our work by donating today! 

Every day, survivors rely on Luke’s Place for legal support, safety planning, and trauma-informed services, resources that become even more critical during the holiday season. Your donation helps ensure that women and children leaving abusive relationships have access to the specialized support they need, when they need it most. 

If you are able, please consider contributing. 

Your generosity directly strengthens: 

• Safety 

• Advocacy 

• Hope for survivors